When you are in your early twenties being unmarried doesn’t matter much, but everything changes as you get closer to thirty and your biological clock begins to tick. The pain of being unmarried runs deep and it’s magnified when you see your girlfriends and family members getting married and starting families. This makes you question how committed your man truly is to you. More important you wonder why he hasn’t taken the next step to make you more than a girlfriend.
As the years go on you continue comparing yourself, your relationship, and the relationships of those around you. You even begin to question the value you bring to a relationship and if you are even worthy of being a wife. The reality is you are worthy of being a wife, but he may not have the same ideology when it comes to marriage.
When a man does not want to get married there is a deeper reason for his disinterest; such as:
If you feel like you are at a dead end with your boyfriend on the issue marriage – the next step is to leave. He needs time and space to figure out what he wants on his time without wasting anymore of your time.
If he decides that he wants to moves forward with marriage. You must meet with a counselor to ensure he arrived at this decision on his own and make sure his choice was not influenced by your decision to leave. The counselor will work with each of you to understand what is truly going on and guide you with choosing the path forward.
It is not guaranteed that the outcome of counseling will result in marriage, but it will allow you to make an informed decision as you move forward. This will allow you to accept things as they are, begin planning a wedding, or begin planning a life that does not include him.
If he refuses to marry you it isn’t your fault – every man is not cut out for marriage.
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